Can you believe it? Wedding planning in 2025 comes with a lot of joy, a lot of decisions, and yes, a lot of numbers. According to The Knot’s 2025 data, the average hometown wedding is about $32,000, while an international destination wedding averages around $41,000.

Those numbers can feel big, especially for families sitting around the kitchen table trying to make thoughtful choices. But here in Hannibal and across the Tri-State area, I always think the heart of a wedding is not the price tag. It is the people who show up, the hugs, the old friends, the grandparents on the dance floor, and the memories everyone carries home.

What Wedding Costs Look Like Across the Country

The Knot shared average wedding costs for all 50 states and Washington, D.C. Some states are higher, and some are a little more budget-friendly. Missouri comes in at $25,040, while our neighbors in Illinois average $38,100 and Iowa averages $20,080.

Alabama: $27,000Alaska: $16,150
Arizona: $26,830Arkansas: $18,700
California: $39,170Colorado: $31,130
Connecticut: $40,300Delaware: $38,880
D.C.: $42,480Florida: $32,560
Georgia: $28,800Hawaii: $32,280
Idaho: $17,380Illinois: $38,100
Indiana: $24,380Iowa: $20,080
Kansas: $20,000Kentucky: $21,680
Louisiana: $33,240Maine: $36,000
Maryland: $39,460Massachusetts: $45,000
Michigan: $28,330Minnesota: $27,440
Mississippi: $21,280Missouri: $25,040
Montana: $20,050Nebraska: $20,870
Nevada: $19,890New Hampshire: $36,080
New Jersey: $54,400New Mexico: $22,260
New York: $47,800North Carolina: $29,060
North Dakota: $21,080Ohio: $28,300
Oklahoma: $19,590Oregon: $23,290
Pennsylvania: $35,310Rhode Island: $49,180
South Carolina: $36,170South Dakota: $20,750
Tennessee: $24,040Texas: $30,000
Utah: $17,380Vermont: $44,720
Virginia: $33,760Washington: $26,380
West Virginia: $19,080Wisconsin: $28,730
Wyoming: $16,750

Remember What Matters Most

Where has the time gone when a wedding felt as simple as cake, punch, family, and a few folding chairs? While times have changed, the meaning has not. Whether you are celebrating in Hannibal, Quincy, Palmyra, Monroe City, Louisiana, Bowling Green, Canton, Pittsfield, or another sweet Midwest town, your wedding day is really about love and the people gathered around you.

Budgets matter, of course. Families work hard, and every decision deserves care. But at the end of the day, the moments people remember most are often the simple ones: a proud father’s smile, a mother wiping away tears, little cousins twirling on the dance floor, and friends staying late because they do not want the night to end.

However big or small the celebration may be, I hope every couple feels surrounded, supported, and deeply loved. That is what makes a wedding beautiful here in our Mississippi River region.